Once upon a time, one of my friend told me that I’m making my standard of life way too high. She said it’s not good for me and of course she also said it is not good also to people around me. She told me that, maybe people seem to look ok with the way I run my life. But if I continue to do like that, it will bother people around me.
Ok, the first time I heard she said that. I was a little bit furious. I mean, after all people I knew, I should not hear that from her. Because I tought she knew me well. I was upset. But, I really put her words into my thought. And I consider it as a very good advice for me. I know I was upset but I listen to it. And I start to think how to change the way I run my life.
After I put that as a good idea, I start to translate it into real action. I start to plan my life more organize ( with budget and of course timeline wise). Can you believe it, I start budgeting myself.. And I start planning all of my activities into detail. I feel more organize, and I’m happy with it.. I feel very good about myself.. I can save a lot of my money and I can save into very useful expenses (of course with my own judgement).
Hehehe.. Oh well.. That’s me. Maybe I said ‘NO WAY’ in the beginning. But I always open wide my ear. Listening is important. Especially to listen advice from your best friend. Maybe they can be really bitchy and annoying when they said it. But they are still the best part in your life. They know you better and I’m gratefull for it.. 😉 I guess I still need to learn from life. I’m not wise enough. I’m too young. Guess, I should listen more and talk less.. 😉 Hehehehe..
I still have two books I haven’t finished reading it. And actually I really enjoyed my training this week.. 🙂 I’ve got plenty of new friends. They are really nice and I learned a lot. 😀 I got new mission and vision on my life. Hahahaha… And I’m happy with it.. I guess I made the right decision. Thanks God for it.. 😀 And the best part is. I know my goals know.. And I know my reason to achieve that goals. A very solid reason. 😀