Definisi cemburu menurut kamus adalah ketakutan berpindahnya rasa kasih sayang terhadap orang lain, atau ketidakpercayaan akan kesetiaan orang yang dicintai, seperti suami, isteri atau kekasih. Kecemburuan juga boleh wujud dalam persahabatan atau antara adik-beradik seperti kakak dengan adik kandungnya.

Cemburu dapat dikesan apabila seseorang itu mempunyai perasaan terhadap orang yang dicemburuinya. Oleh itu seringkali kita mendengar orang berkata ‘cemburu tandanya sayang’ yang seolah-olah menggambarkan bahwa cemburu adalah satu standar untuk menilai kasih sayang sesuatu pasangan.Mungkin ini ada benarnya karena jika kita tidak sayang pada seseorang mengapa mesti kita merasa cemburu terhadapnya.

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It’s been a while since my last post. Oh well, what can I say now.. ? If somebody ask me about ‘how’s life ?’. I think I’m goin to say, Life is good.. Yes, I guess I believe that Life is good for me now.

I’ve started on job training in my new workplace since Tuesday. Mm.. I think I enjoy working in my section. So many things to learn, and people in here are very nice to me. They challenge me enough so I can work my ass on the assignment they’ve been given me. That is really good for me..
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Sometimes, two people find that no matter how close they are and how much they love each other, life’s road takes them in different directions ~ at least for a while…

I miss you so much.

There are days when I would give anything to look into your eyes and feel the warmth of your smile;

days when it seems like this separation will last forever.

But I know it won’t, because the connection between us is too strong.

When that day comes and we are together again, I know that it will be as if all this time and distance between us never existed.

Until then, you are in my thoughts and in my heart with every day that goes by.

I love you.

~Cynthia Cotten

Finally, I’ve had spoke the unspoken word.. It’s not as easy as I think before.. The truth is hurt.. But I must deal with it. The worst part is not the way I see myself to deal with it, but to see him or maybe the correct word is to force him to deal with it. I’m selfish, yes I am. But I think it’s gonna be more complicated If I’m not being honest to myself. And also I’m not in the position to compromise things. It’s not good for our own sake..

Well, am i relief ? Not really, but I think I must try to overcome all of it.. Hope he also can overcome all of it.. I wish him all the best. And hope we can really find what we really want.

From friend to lover.. and back to be friend again..

.. case closed..

Lagi iseng browsing dan nemuin website yang isinya tentang berbagai macam ‘Love Quotes’ . Bukannya lagi menye atau mellow tapi setelah gw baca-baca banyak yang lucu sekaligus menyentuh. Hehe.. ini list ‘Love Quotes’ favorit gw :
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